Hello, this is my first time on this, :) I am dealing with my mother. She has dimentia andshe also has dillirium caused by a UT Infection. I have been looking after her along with my siblings. I have been helping her to the bathroom, helpin her with her meds, cooking, cleaning, etc. I find it extrmly hard, very sad and most of the time I am crying, and getting very upset with myself thinking what did she do to DESERVE this sickness. Her Doctor placed her into the Rockyview Hospital here in Calgary,Alberta Canada. I want her to come home, but it just would not be safe for her. Why cant things be like they were years ago ? I remember she used to do things on her own. So many things. Catch the bus, go shopping, walk to my brother and sisiter's home, without any assistance. THIS ALL CHANGED ! Why ?? I need to know how better to cope with this. I keep asking myself and others why and all they end up saying things will get better !! I end up crying and just cannot find myself to be TRULY happy again. I am so SAD!! I hope that by talking with others I can learn to better deal with this.