Hi,. I have a friend a real true friend who is in hospice four days now. I have know him for many years. I knew his first wife and she passed of lung cancer . Ten yrs ago he married another wonderful lady. Last yr she beat ovarian cancer . He now has bladder cancer that has spread fast. Has had no chemo. My husband knew him since a young boy. . I had been cleaning his house for yrs and he was also friends with my sister and brother in law. I became good friends with his new wife. Not sure hoj rw he has but the