Hi Lindsey,
Reading your post brought back memories for me. I was a caregiver for my Mom who had terminal cancer a few years back. I remember some friends going MIA on me because they didn’t want to deal with what I was dealing with.
Last week, I read a blog post by the late Reuters health reporter, Debra Sherman. She lived with stage 4 lung cancer before passing away last week. In January she wrote a post about how cancer wrecks your health and some friendships. She talked about how her friends could be classed into different stages. The stage 1 friends are the ones who have your back and the stage 4 being the lousy ones who don’t call.
Check out Debra’s post at:
http://blogs.reuters.com/cancer-in-context/2014/01/22/cancer-wrecks-your-body-even-some-friendships/
Thinking of you,
GWTBB