For the last 15 months I have cared for my mom who has Dementia. My sisters' have grudges from things that happened in the family over 10 years ago. So now, my sister who is general guardian has placed mom in the nursing home, which she needs. I am on a list of people who cannot see mom or even call to see how she is. I am 4 miles from the nursing home. Mom and I have been fine, it is my sisters' that hold grudges. I want to be able to see mom as I promised her in 2013 when she was scared that I would go through this with her, she would never be alone. How do I get my sisters' to realize by "locking me out" of seeing mom is not in mom's best interest and they will regret this. Monday will be 9 weeks since I have seen mom. I don't have money for a lawyer. What can I say or send to my sister who is guardian to show her she is making to wrong decision? I do not fight, holler, I just want to see mom and be with her until the end as I promised. My sisters' need to realize this is about mom and not anyone else's feelings. Mom should come first.